Imposter syndrome is sneaky. It shows up when we’re asked to lead, to speak, to represent, especially when visibility feels both like a gift and a weight.For many neurodivergent professionals, that visibility can feel like standing under a spotlight you didn’t ask for.
You’re honoured to be seen, but you’re also acutely aware of every expectation, every potential misstep, and every quiet doubt whispering, “Are you really meant to be here?”
Don’t know what it is?
The Pain and Privilege of Visibility
Sometimes, the most challenging roles are the ones that look the simplest on paper — the relationships that seem clear from the outside but feel ambiguous inside. The less tangible the expectations, the louder imposter syndrome becomes.
When you live at the intersection of multiple identities — neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+, change-maker, lived-experience leader — visibility can be both validating and vulnerable. You’re expected to inspire and educate, often without the space to process the emotional labour that comes with it.
I like to think of imposter syndrome as the hyena in The Lion King — noisy, mocking, and always ready to laugh at your discomfort. But when you turn around and face it, you realise it only has the power you give it.
Defining Leadership Through Values
Leadership isn’t just about confidence — it’s about congruence. The antidote to imposter syndrome isn’t more accolades or affirmation; it’s alignment.
When I feel lost in the “messy middle” — between public-facing expectations and authentic, community-based work — I come back to my core values:
✨ Authenticity – showing up as I am, not who I think I should be.
⚖️ Equity & Inclusion – ensuring everyone has access to belonging.
💬 Candour – speaking truth with compassion.
🌍 Social Justice & Representation – using visibility for impact, not validation.
🌈 Joy & Accountability – remembering the privilege of being a face for change, while staying grounded in purpose.
These values are my compass when the spotlight feels too bright. They remind me that leadership isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being principled.
Owning the Messy Middle
We often talk about success as if it’s a straight line. But the reality is much messier — especially when you lead through lived experience.
There’s the public-facing version of inclusion, and then there’s the real, relational, sometimes uncomfortable work of embedding it.
That’s where the magic — and the growth — happens. The messy middle is where authenticity meets accountability. It’s where imposter syndrome can evolve into integrity.
Stretching Without Snapping
For neurodivergent leaders, even the small things — like networking or small talk — can feel like being in the stretch zone. But connection doesn’t have to mean performance. It can mean presence.
Instead of rehearsing the “perfect” elevator pitch, I focus on sharing purpose. Something as simple as:
“I help people and organisations build social capital through authentic leadership and neuroinclusion.”
No mask, no performance — just clarity.
From Imposter to Disruptor
Imposter syndrome loses its grip when we remember why we’re in the room. We’re not there to tick a diversity box. We’re there to disrupt gently, to challenge with empathy, and to use lived experience for good.
The truth is — imposter syndrome only thrives in silence. When we speak openly about it, we don’t just free ourselves; we give others permission to do the same.
💬 Reflection Prompt:
What values help you navigate your own “messy middle”? How do you turn visibility into authenticity, not performance?
🚀 Call to Action:
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Your leadership doesn’t need to be louder — it just needs to be truer.
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